Trying to mod for Skyrim

So a few days ago, someone finally posted the mod I've been needing to give Skyrim a second chance, a death cam mod! Finally finally finally it has happened so now I have a slight regained interest for Skyrim. I am going to be doing a re-install soon if I decide to go further with it. But I am hoping there are some good mods for Skyrim. I am literally dying for to have CBBE with lots of ass jiggle without consistent crashes. But I am not sure if it is possible to get it perfect. I know I've seen videos with it, I recalled when I tried it, it never worked out. Quite curious if anyone else has had luck?

Since I got a tad bit into Skyrim, I did a mod for the ZGGB-CH body, my other favorite body besides CBRE.

Here are some pictures of my mod wit the ZGGB-CH body.

I may continue Skyrim mods if I can find a few "Solutions" and maybe mods.

1) Looking to find out how to stop the constant crash on loadup. It can be quite annoying to boot 10x before on sucessful boot up with just a few mods enabled

2) CBBE super jiggly butt that is semi realistic but very bouncy. Someone posted a video a while back ad I asked them if what they were told helped and it did not :(

3) Modern day locations.

4) Hugh overhauls (Not 100% important but always enjoy game changers).

5) Doubtful, but skimpy armor/ clothing replacer for bodyslide that is not nude or thong. I prefer a pair of fullback panties personally (For those who've seen my works).

6) Easy method to export from blender to Skyim? (I know I can and want to learn 3DS max but the learning curve for it would be just far too deep for me to want to spend considerable amount of time to reinvent the wheel but I also want to avoid the 88 steps to make things work in Skyrim from blender :().

I will say for sure, Skyrim is looking a lot better with the finding of some of the mods that I wanted to see a few years ago.